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Put it on Repeat
When you’ve experienced life with a destructive or addicted person for any length of time, the way they treat you and the unhealthy cycle...

Kyla Whipple
Jul 23, 20223 min read
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Deeper Healing
One of the joys of leaving an abusive relationship is getting to a place where you can begin to hope again. You can think to the future...

Kyla Whipple
Jun 11, 20223 min read
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Getting Your Emotional Power Back
Joy can feel like an uncomfortable emotion after we experience a destructive relationship. Our emotions have been controlled for so long...
Kate Ferrill
May 5, 20221 min read
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Grief in Destructive Relationships: How Do I Know it's Grief?
Grief is not limited to death. We can grieve with any loss. Loss of a job, a friend moves, when children change schools. Women...

Kyla Whipple
Feb 18, 20222 min read
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Is it My Responsibility to Help Him Change?
The short answer is no. Your job is to heal, set boundaries, share your needs, and find ways to be/feel safe. Many wives come to us...

Kyla Whipple
Jan 12, 20222 min read
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Is it Abuse? 15 Questions to ask Yourself
As we share this month about things that can cause us to feel overwhelmed, one that’s at the top of the list for many women is coming to...

Kyla Whipple
Dec 14, 20212 min read
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Finding Your Voice Again
Being constantly criticized has a way of quieting us. When our words incite anger, coldness, or a harsh rebuke, we learn quickly that...
Kate Ferrill
Oct 21, 20213 min read
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A God of Protection, Power & Perseverance
I have often found God’s word to be most meaningful and encouraging when I feel lost or helpless. It has been a reminder of His goodness,...

Kyla Whipple
Oct 12, 20213 min read
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Confusion to Clarity
Learning about your spouse’s affair or living in an abusive marriage can cause shock and confusion. These feelings are disorienting and...

Kyla Whipple
Sep 16, 20213 min read
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Help! I am Always Confused. Is it Gaslighting?
Have you ever left a conversation feeling like you are certain the way you recalled an event was pretty accurate, but the other person...

Kyla Whipple
Sep 13, 20212 min read
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First Steps to Healing
In my healing journey from betrayal, I remember feeling so overwhelmed and confused. I felt like I needed someone to hold my hand through...

Kyla Whipple
May 28, 20213 min read
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Divorce is a Sin
Divorce is a Sin. Doesn’t it feel like that? The way I’ve always heard divorce talked about from the pulpit was like it was a disease or...

Kyla Whipple
May 3, 20214 min read
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Why Doesn’t She Leave?
This seems like a fair question. He’s physically or emotionally harmful to her. Friends and family members have seen it over the last few...

Kyla Whipple
Jan 22, 20213 min read
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Is Mutuality in Marriage Biblical?
Mutuality is the idea that there is back and forth in a relationship, a give and take. It promotes the growth and well-being of both...

Kyla Whipple
Jan 21, 20213 min read
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Marriage without Boundaries is Harmful
The idea of boundaries for many feels mean, hurtful, or ungodly. We worry that imposing boundaries means the person impacted by the...

Kyla Whipple
Oct 13, 20204 min read
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What Does Good Support Look Like?
Hey everyone! We’re spending this month talking about support. And particularly I want to talk about what good support looks like if...

Kyla Whipple
Oct 3, 20203 min read
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Restoring Safety & Trust
One of the very first steps for a partner who is in a relationship where he or she has been harmed or betrayed, is to identify what is...

Kyla Whipple
Sep 1, 20202 min read
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Support-How to Guard Your Heart
If you’ve ever needed support for a toxic relationship dynamic, you know two things. Support can be a life saver and “support” can border...

Kyla Whipple
Jul 5, 20203 min read
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